Donald Trump’s approach to leadership saddens me, never more so than when he shoved past the Montenegro president at a NATO meeting. If you missed this you might like to check out the short video below. This behaviour would be inappropriate in a schoolyard, it would be inappropriate in a workplace and it is highly inappropriate for a leader in his position.
This incident highlights a leadership quality that Trump lacks – the essential leadership quality of humility. The dictionary defines humility as “having a modest or low view of one’s own importance” or as “the state of being humble”. Even the most fervent Trump supporter could surely not describe the American leader in these terms.
Humility for leaders is all about:
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Playing down their own achievements and playing up team achievements
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Having inner strength and confidence wrapped in a cloak of modesty
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Owning mistakes and learning from them
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Acknowledging weaknesses as well as talents
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Listening to the thoughts, ideas and feelings of others
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Treating everyone with respect, regardless of their position, level or background
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Putting the needs of others ahead of their own desires
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Encouraging and empowering others to step up and lead
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Ongoing learning and striving to improve
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Knowing that they will never have all of the answers
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Recognising the contributions of others
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Genuinely caring about people
I’m fortunate to have worked with several leaders who possess deep and genuine humility. These leaders may not always be the most charismatic but they usually possess a calm confidence that engenders respect and makes people want to follow them through all sorts of situations. Their behaviour builds trust and reduces fear, and in this environment people are willing and able to apply their best efforts and work with others.
I’ve also known some leaders who are the opposite – words such as arrogant and narcissistic come to mind. For these leaders the primary motivation has been to serve themselves and achieve personal gain. Sometimes their high levels of confidence and charisma make them interesting and compelling to followers in the short term but usually this fades as their extreme self-interest overtakes anything good they have to offer. This style destroys teamwork and erodes the efforts of those around them.
If you’re a leader and you can bring more humility to your work you’ll build a better connection with your followers, and will almost certainly achieve better outcomes. Sadly, in Donald Trump’s case I really don’t hold much hope.
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